Skeet Skeet — The Mechanics of Ejaculation
Everybody RUNNNNN!!!! It’s a GUSHER!!! Okay, well maybe not. But feels that way sometimes!!
Here’s a brekdown for you of the actual events, times, amounts, and distances involved in a typical ejaculation. (In case you were dying to know, lol.). Results can vary greatly of course depending upon the last time you did it, how often you’ve been doing it lately, and various psychological factors. The following are typical averages…
1. Pre-Cum – Typically ejaculation is preceded by an emission of 1-2 drops (or in some cases, much more) of an clear, alkaline fluid from the Cowper’s glands (two small glands beneath the prostate). Its alkalinity neutralizes the acidity that remains in the urethra from recent urination. In other words it helps protect your swimmers and serves as a natural male lubricant.
1. Contractions – A typical orgasm consists of 10 to 15 contractions. The rate of contractions gradually slows during the orgasm. Initial contractions occur at an average interval of 0.6 seconds with an increasing increment of 0.1 seconds per contraction. Contractions of most men proceed at regular rhythmic intervals for the duration of the orgasm. Many men also experience additional irregular contractions at the conclusion of the orgasm.
2. Spurts – Ejaculation begins during the first or second contraction of orgasm. For most men the first spurt occurs during the second contraction. The first or second spurt is typically the largest and can contain 40 percent or more of the total ejaculate volume. After this peak the flow of each pulse diminishes. A small sample study of seven men showed an average of 7 spurts of semen (range between 5 and 10) followed by an average of 10 more contractions with no semen expelled (range between 5 and 23).
3. Shooting Distance – This can vary widely. A study involving about 100 men measured the distance of ejaculation and found that in three-quarters of men, the semen more or less just exuded from the penis. In other males the semen may be propelled from a matter of some inches to a foot or two.
4. Amount – When a man orgasms he ejaculates between 1 and 5 millilitres of semen. The average is 2 to 3 millilitres, which is roughly about a small teaspoonful.
GOING THE DISTANCE
Okay, now we know the mechanics. Let’s see what your shot is all about. Take a look at the following chart and using the polls below, indicate what you’re typical shooting distance is like. Here’s the breakdown…
A. JUST DRIBBLES/OOZES OUT
B. A BIT OF A BUMP (BELLY BUTTON BOUND)
C. MID TORSO (AOBUT 4 TO 6 INCHES)
D. CHEST SHOT (ABOUT 12 INCHES)
E. NECK SHOT
F. MOUTH ZONE
G. EYE ZONE (DANGER DANGER DON’T GO BLIND!)
H. HAIR GEL
I. HITS THE HEADBOARD/ORBITAL/LOST IN SPACE
Straight But Not Narrow (REVISITED)
We posted this article several months ago about an interesting organization called Straight But Not Narrow (SBNN). Here’s another look at SBNN with some added videos they’ve put out since this article was first written. It’s……very……very……good stuff people.
Greetings. As you know this blog is intended to be for guys of ALL sexualities, straight, gay, bi and everything in between and around. We’re all about the love and respect no matter WHO you are. So we took particular interest in something we ran across while surfing the internet today. It’s an organization called Straight But Not Narrow apparently stared by actor Avan Jogia. Their goal is for people to be more accepting towards the LGBT community. On their Facebook page, their mission reads: To get all the young, straight people out there to say…. “Oh, you’re gay? That’s cool. Whatever.” They’re currently running a video campaign featuring actors Josh Hutcherson and Avan Jogia doing just that (see below). You can also go their website at www.straightbutnotnarrow.org.
The term “straight but not narrow” has been around a bit and generally refers to straight guys that are open minded and accepting of gay guys. Pretty cool to see an organization formed that is all about promoting love and acceptance. As Avan Jogia puts it:
“It doesn’t make you any less of a man or make it look like you’re into men if you’re friends with a man who is into men!”
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And….here are some more recent videos the SBNN organization has created…
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And a thank you message from founder, Avan Jogia (originally uploaded to YouTube 2.16.11)
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Lube Job
There are two kinds of guys in the world. The ones who masturbate dry and the ones who masturbate wet. By that we mean guys who use lube to jack off with guys who don’t. It’s a highly personalized preference.
There are guys whose skin is extremely sensitive and who can’t imagine how you could beat off without some “grease”. There are guys who never ever even think of why you would want all that grease on the job. And then there are those among us who lube it up sometimes and go without other times simply as a matter of changing up the feeling and the experience. There are even guys who select lubes like wines from a wine list seeking the different sensory sensation that particular lube may offer.
Going with or without lube definitely provides a different sensation. It varies with the guy you ask and the lube you use, but in general, the no lube session is a more tactile, skin on skin experience, while (depending on the lube) adding lube to the process is a closer simulation to real penetration. Overall, according to previous polls on this site that asked guys if they used lube or not, it seems safe to say that the Non-Lubers are in the majority.
What lubes do the lubricators like? Here are some of the more popular ones that I’ve come into contact with…
HAND LOTION – Probably the most traditional of the lubrication alternatives. There is an endless variety of hand lotions to choose from from light and airy to dense and greasy. The main issue here is: Does the lotion absorb into your skin and disappear right away? Or does it provide the right about of grease to get you through your session? (My suggestion would be to research extensively to find the one that works best for you.)
VASELINE – Another very popular choice. Vaseline is thick in consistency and usually stays greasy for quite some time. It provides a less “slopping around” kind of feel. The downside is your member will probably still be feeling pretty greasy when you’re done which can affect clean up. Good news is your morning wood will feel nice and moisturized.
BABY OIL – A good alternative to the two choices above. Baby oil provides a nice slick experience. Only trouble is that it is very “watery” and not only can it get all over the place, it can make the jerking experience somewhat excessively “wet”. (Here’s a tip for advanced masturbators: Run a hot bath and squirt some baby oil in the water. This will turn your bath into a steamy, total body, slippery experience, ideal for an extra sensuous jack off session.)
SPIT/SALIVA – Once again, this is a highly popular choice. Hey forget all those fancy, store bought creams and gels. Simply spit onto your palm, lick your fingers, dampen your fingertips and go! (What do you think guys did before they invented Jergen’s??)
COMMERCIAL SEX LUBES – (KY and Wet are just two of the many, many choices) Well who would have thought? Someone specifically makes lubrication alternatives for sex. While most of these are intended for doing the deed, they certainly apply just as well to your masturbation requirements. Some are even supposedly designed specifically for jacking off. There are tons to choose from: oil based, water based, silicone base, flavored, warming, edible, non edible…you name it (and have the courage to buy it) you can find it.
OLIVE OIL – Transform a common household item into a special masturbation experience. Olive oil provides a smooth glide somewhere between Vaseline and baby oil. Highly recommended over the less “rich” vegetable, canola and peanut oils.
BUTTER (CRISCO, ANIMAL FAT) – A somewhat different yet definitley tastier alternative to any of the above choices.
BANANA PEELS – Say what?? Yes, you read that right. The peel of a banana. I couldn’t resist adding this reader recommendation. Although I haven’t personally tried it, it comes with a 5 star rating. Apparently you eat or otherwise discard the inner fruit of a banana and use the peel to engulf your member as your jack. Supposedly it’s pretty cool.
Well obviously we could go on and on. The masturbation lubrication alternatives are only limited by what’s in your pantry and in your imagination. Take the polls below and fill us in on your experience with jacking lubes and send over any suggestions you have that we’ve missed and you’d like to share.
The Top 5 Masturbation Myths
Masturbation is somewhat of a mysterious topic in the first place. It’s one of the few things in a guy’s life that is completely, almost universally common to do, but not terribly common to talk about. Due in part to its mysterious, shrouded in secrecy nature, there are a lot of “myths” about masturbation that go around. Most of these have been in circulation for a long time (hence their “myth” status, I suppose). Here then are the Top 5…
MASTURBATION MYTH NUMBER 5. Masturbation Weakens The Legs.
This is one that athletes usually get from coaches who are concerned that you won’t be ready for the big meet. It probably arises from the fact that having an orgasm is a totally body melting sensation that leaves you feeling relieved, released, and relaxed. These feeling are somewhat contrary to being amped up for action whether that’s a sporting event or something else. Well, the myth is totally not true. It may relax the body, but beating off doesn’t drain you of any vital life forces. Heck, I knew guys who would beat off before a big meet so they could relax and concentrate better.
MASTURBATION MYTH NUMBER 4. Guys Who Masturbate Together Are Gay (Or Will Be.)
Again. Not true. But, wait you say. Two guys with their dicks out beating off in the same room? Sounds pretty gay! Well here are the facts. Studies vary, but something like up to 45% of all guys regardless of sexuality have had some sort of sexual experience with another guy to the point of orgasm. This includes jacking off together. As any guy who has done it can tell you (and there are surprisingly a lot), it’s not necessarily a gay thing. Masturbating with a buddy is a common form of adolescent experimentation, a natural expression of teenage curiosity, a special male bonding experience, a fun thing to do on a sleepover…and sure, for some guys, it’s about exploring their homosexuality. Point is, just because a guy beats off with another guy it definitely does not make him automatically gay.
MASTURBATION MYTH NUMBER 3. Guys Stop Masturbating When They Get Older.
Ask any guy, any age, any time. Do you masturbate? Chances are no matter their age they will tell you YES. I remember when I was a lot younger thinking, wow, I bet guys grow out of this when they’re older, like 16 or so. At 16 I knew I was wrong. Guys continue to masturbate vigorously throughout their entire lives. In fact, most guys masturbate well beyond 80, or basically, as long as their body cooperates, often at the same rate that they did when they were 13.
MASTURBATION MYTH NUMBER 2. Guys Stop Solo Masturbation When They Are In A Relationship.
Once again. Not true. Although it varies greatly from guy to guy and the nature and sexual demands of the relationship, most every study I’ve seen reports that guys continue to masturbate by themselves when they are in a sexually active relationship with another person, even when they are married. Although this may be disturbing to hear for many female partners, consider this. For most guys, masturbation isn’t something we do because we don’t like sex with you or aren’t satisfied with sex with you. It’s special alone time sex we enjoy with ourselves. It doens’t mean we don’t love you. It just means we like to jack off too.
MASTURBATION MYTH NUMBER 1. If You Masturbate Too Much You’ll Go Blind.
I’m sorry, I’ll have to stop writing this article. My braille keyboard needs a good cleaning. Just kidding. Blind? Really? People go blind from masturbating? I think not. If that were the case the world would be full of white canes and seeing eye dogs everywhere you went. I’m sure this was just a Victorian scare tactic, or possibly coincidental, since most guys who get glasses get them about the same time they start masturbating. This of course is just a coincidence of growing up and has nothing to do with jacking off. The only way I can think of that you’d go blind from masturbating is if you keet shooting your stuff in your eye. So don’t do that. It stings. (I’ve heard.)
On The Patch
Chest hair. Either you think it’s sexy and can’t wait to get you some or you think it’s dirty and wish you didn’t have it. Some guys are hairless as an egg their entire lives and some guys end up looking like a gorilla trying to find some division between their hairy face and their hairy chest. Actually between those two extremes are a seemingly infinite variety of chest hair amounts and patterns. One of the most common ones (and often coveted ones) is known as “the patch.”
The patch is that splash of hair many guys have in the middle of their chests between their pecs. It can be a few sparse hairs or a discernable tuft. Seems like most guys have some sort of hair in that area. For a lot of guys the patch is a badge of honor — a sign of masculinity, manhood, and virility. Many consider the patch to be the sexiest compromise between bald and bushy. The patch can make an appearance early or late. Some guys can claim to have one at 15, others don’t even seen a sign until 23. Some guys never get one at all.
So how about you? Are you On The Patch?? Using the photo illustration above, match up which picture most closely resembles your chest patch (if you have one). Oh, and manscaping doesn’t count. Your answer should reflect your chest in its natural, unshaven condition.
1. NOBODY HOME. MY CHEST IS PRETTY MUCH BARE.
2. THE BEGINNINGS OF A PATCH. A HANDFUL OF NOTICEABLE HAIRS.
3. A DISTINCT PATCH. MORE THAN JUST A FEW HAIRS, BUT NOT REAL BUSHY OR ANYTHING.
4. A FULL PATCH. IT’S GOT SOME DENSITY AND SUBSTANCE.
5. YEAH THAT’S A SERIOUS PATCH. DEEP. BUSHY. BORDERING ON DENSE AND LUXURIOUS.
13 Ways Guys Learn How To Masturbate
13 Ways?? Yes. I know what you’re thinking. That seems like a lot of different ways to learn a pretty instinctual thing. It’s kind of like how hard do you need to teach a bird to fly or a fish to swim?? And, yes, for many of us masturbation just….happens. The call of the wild is raging inside and somehow our hand just goes there and somehow, well, things work out. But for many of us, our masturbation career starts out differently. We may actively seek out instructions, or we may see others doing it and want to get in on that action for ourselves.
So here are 13 different ways guys find out not just about masturbation, but how to actually go about doing it. See if one of these scenarios fits with your experience…or maybe you’ve got a number 14 to share…
1. IT JUST CAME NATURALLY – Nobody taught me anything. I just did it one day for some reason. Figured things out on my own.
2. MY BROTHER SHOWED ME – My older brother taught me how to do it via a live demonstration.
3. MY BROTHER TALKED ME THROUGH IT – My older brother taught me, but it was just verbal instruction.
4. MY FRIEND SHOWED ME – One of my buddies taught me how to do it via a live demo, possibly with hands on instruction.
5. MY FRIEND TALKED ME THROUGH IT – My buddy told me how to do it, but the instructions were verbal only.
6. I LEARNED FROM A GROUP OF FRIENDS WHO WERE DOING IT – A group of us guys were hanging out, maybe it was a sleepover, somebody started doing it. Maybe a couple other guys joined in. I observed the action and learned the ropes.
7. MY FRIENDS WERE TALKING ABOUT IT – My buddies were talking about “jacking off” and “masturbating” so I put two and two together and gave it a try.
8. I PICKED IT UP FROM PORN – I was watching some porno and copied what I saw.
9. I LEARNED ABOUT IT IN HEALTH CLASS – We were taught about it in school, and I went home and tried it out for the first time.
10. I READ ABOUT IT IN A BOOK – I found this one sex education book and read up on masturbation, then gave it a try for myself.
11. I WAS SPYING ON MY BROTHER – He didn’t know I saw, but I spied on my older brother doing it and that’s all the instruction I needed.
12. I SPIED ON MY BUDDY – I covertly witnessed one of my friends doing it and that gave me the info to give it a shot myself.
13. I GOT THE DETAILS DURING MY BIG SEX TALK – My dad (or someone else) pretty much covered it in our big talk about the Birds and the Bees.
Curving
If you’ve ever seen a boner (and I’m pretty sure you have) you know that not all of them are perfectly proportioned or point perfectly straight. Many times on the way from the root to the tip there’s a curve here, a bend there, a bump or a vein or a bulge. Although most of us point straight, a good many of us have some curvature going on whether to the left or right, up or down, and even possibly a combination of side-to-side along with up or down. And there’s variations on where the Big Guy is pointing when he’s happy. For some, he’s pointing toward the far horizons, for others he’s pointing at your face, for many he’s pointing straight out, and so on. It’s different for different guys.
According to the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, Vol. 23 (1997), in which penises, their lengths, angles, and curvatures were measured from a photographic sample of around 500 or so participants, 13.6% of erections lean to the left slightly when erect and 1.2% of penises curve towards the right. 22.2% were found to bend up and 14.8% bent slightly downward.
Kinsey’s research came up with similar findings. In his studies he gauged 87.3% as being “straight” erections, 9.5% as being left-curves and the remaining 2.4% as right curves. His studies also found 24.9% of us have penises that curve up slightly. (Numbers for downward curves were not available).
So if you’ve got a bit of a bend to your banana, not to worry. It’s perfectly normal and doesn’t hamper the performance of penetrative sex. And, no, it isn’t caused by beating it too much with any particular hand. It’s just the way you are.
If however, you exhibit more of a severe curvature and it’s painful, this could be a non-life-threatening and treatable condition called Peyronie’s disease and you should get that checked out by your doctor or urologist.
So are you throwing a curve? Take a look at the graph and tell us how you’re….leaning.
INSTRUCTIONS: Here’s how to answer. The above chart has three parts. 1. UP/DOWN ANGLE, 2. LEFT/RIGHT CURVE, and 3. UP/DOWN CURVE. In the poll below indicate your answer for each part.
For example, B-C-A means you point up and out, yours doesn’t have any left or right curve, and it doesn’t have any up or down bend.
If you point straight up, bend to the left, and have a slight upward curve, your answer would be A-B-C.
So…your answer is always some combination of Chart 1/Chart 2/Chart 3…..B-B-C……A-B-A…..D-A-B…..Get it?
UPDATE 8/26: SURVEY RESULTS SO FAR…
Here’s what people are reporting after with 64 responses in so far:
Most Common UP/DOWN ANGLE? ”C” Somewhat Upward, with 25 responses
Most Common LEFT/RIGHT CURVE? “C” Straight/No Curve with 3o responses
Most Common UP/DOWN CURVE? “C” Straight/No Curve with 26 repsonses
Most Common Combination? B-C-A or Pointing Upward/Straight Out/Straight Up and Down with 5 responses
Second Most Common Combinations? Tie between C-C-A, B-B-C, C-B-C, C-C-B with 4 responses each.
“I’m Sure I’m Straight! (But…..)” — An Alternate Look At Traditional Sexual Labels
You’re straight. You know you are. You like women. You get a boner over women. You want to sleep with a lot of women. You want to marry one and have babies. You’re a straight guy. BUT…
BUT? BUT.. . Sometimes. A lot of the time. You find yourself thinking, fantasizing, and maybe even behaving in ways that are somewhat less than straight. What’s going on? It may trouble you a little. It may trouble you A LOT. But fact remains, there are things on your brain that go against the rigid definition of heterosexuality you feel everyone expects you to follow.
Here’s what happens….
- You often think to yourself, some guys are really good looking. Well, more than that, some guys are just plain HOT.
- You find yourself staring at guys sometimes in the gym, around the neighborhood, at the mall, at school…You stop changing the TV channel when you come to a men’s gymnastics competition… You find yourself noticing the guys on the cover of magazines like Details and GQ.
- You’re jacking off and occasionally (or frequently) guys pop up in your fantasies. Guys you know, friends of yours, celebrities, even your girlfriend’s older brother.
- You’re not opposed to checking out gay porn. In fact, you might seek it out quite a bit and masturbate while viewing.
- You think a lot about how you compare to your friends sexually. Who’s bigger? What do they look like masturbating? How do they do jack off? How do they make love?
- You get boners thinking or looking at guys sometimes.
- You tend to yearn for an increased level of “closeness” and intimacy with your friends. You yearn for physical contact and quick to hug or maybe even cuddle a bit while watching a movie on the couch. Maybe you’ve jacked off together, maybe you really want to. Maybe you want to a lot.
- You don’t think things like guys masturbating together, masturbating each other, or even oral sex as necessarily “gay” sex. It’s more like it’s a higher level of brotherhood between straight guys.
- You seriously don’t ever expect to actually have sex with a guy, but hey, if it came up, who knows? Maybe you’d go for it.
- You pretty much agree with people when they say things like”Hey a mouth is a mouth, what does it matter if it’s a guy or a girl?” or “It’s not gay if it’s a three-way” or “Pleasure is pleasure, who knows what’s what when the lights are off anyway?”
- You agree with the following statement: Anything is possible given the right circumstances with the right person.
- Sometimes your thoughts and feelings go beyond the sexual to the romantic. You can imagine experiencing an emotionally intimate relationship with a guy where cuddling would be natural.
- You are frequently infatuated with best friends and special buddies and teammates and glorify such things as brotherhood and bromances and best friendships.
- You can honestly say you’ve experienced crushes on other guys and/or have been in a bromance.
- You tend to think that if you could figure out how to keep it a secret, you could possibly see having a “special” guy friend with “special” benefits.
So yeah, there is no doubt in your mind that you are straight. Being anything else doesn’t make sense. But it’s bothersome that you seem to be a different kind of straight. One that isn’t adverse to having sexual or romantic feelings, encounters, experiences, or even relationships with other males.
Does this fit you? Does it seem completely outrageous, or do you see yourself in some of the descriptions above? Well, not to worry. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. All of this seems to be part of a growing trend for guys to come to grips with the actual realities of their sexualities. It’s a growing willingness to look beyond the traditional labels of Straight, Gay, and Bi to find something else that more accurately describes what’s going on inside. No it’s not the invention of a NEW sexuality. It’s the recognition of an existing one that society has been slow to accept.
What to call it is still up for grabs. Not 100% Straight? Mostly Straight? Somewhere Between Straight and Bi? The words don’t matter as much as the fact that there is something there. It’s a place for guys that are secure in their heterosexuality yet remain aware and open to their potential to experience more….more attractions, crushes, experiences and relationships with other guys.
In fact, national surveys in the U.S. and Canada show that 3 to 4 percent of male teenagers, when given the choice to select a “label” that decribes their sexual feelings, desires, and behaviors best, don’t choose gay, straight, or bi, but opt for “mostly” or “predominantly” heterosexual. An even higher percentage of post high school men in the U.S. make the same choice.
You might argue that this is all a sham. That anyone who is “mostly straight” is actually not straight at all and simply a bisexual in denial. Or maybe people that have these thoughts are really gay men not quite ready or willing to take the plunge. Or maybe it’s just horny hormonal teenagers rationalizing their bouncing and emerging sexualities and curiosities.
Or, it could be exactly what it sounds like. A potentially more honest description of a guy’s sexuality…maybe even YOUR sexuality.
Checking In On The Twins — A Guy’s Guide To Testicular Cancer Self-Exams
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Okay. Fair warning. There’s nothing fun about talking about cancer in general. And, there’s nothing fun about talking about ball cancer in particular. But, the simple fact is, testicular cancer is a young man’s disease. In fact, it’s the biggest cause of cancer-related death in 15 to 35 year-old males. So this wouldn’t really be the caring, helpful blog that I say it is if we didn’t address this serious subject and give ya’ll some guidance.
The good news is, testicular cancer is considered to be quite rare and accounts for about 1-2% of all cancers in men. It is also highly treatable and early diagnosis of testicular cancer means that recovery is high. In fact, the current survival rate is an impressive 95%.
The video above illustrates how to go about checking yourself for signs of testicular cancer. It’s something you can quickly and easily due during or after a hot shower and you should do it about once a month. A couple words of warning. I personally don’t like watching these kinds of videos, they make me feel a bit creeped out. But get over that creepy feeling, because the info is really important. Secondly I have to tell you that the video shows a naked guy’s junk in a medical setting. It’s not porn. But it is nude balls. So if that bothers you or you’re too young, please don’t watch.
All kidding aside, it really is a good idea to be familiar with your private parts and to know what they feel like and how they respond to things. So, playing with yourself does have it’s advantages. If you get used to the size and shape of your balls, then any change or anomaly should be easy to notice. When it comes to potential cancer, a swelling or painless, pea-sized lump in one of your nuts is the most common sign of possible problems. Remember, not all conditions are cancerous. But don’t risk it. If you have any questions about these procedures or any concerns about your health at all, be sure to check with a health professional. Hey, if this saves even one life out there then it’s totally worth it. Love you guys!!
How To Build Your Chest And Triceps (via TheManCrush Blog)
The following article is via TheManCrushBlog and was originally published there on 8-8-2011
What does your chest workout look like? Is it all about the bench press or maybe it’s chest flys and dumbbell lifts. What moves do you to work your triceps? These are probably questions you’ve given little consideration to. That’s the purpose of this article, inspired by a feature in the April 2011 edition of Men’s Fitness by trainer Nick Tumminello, C.S.C.S.
The only piece of equipment you will need for this workout is a medicine ball or a small step/slightly raised platform. By using the medicine ball you will offset your balance slightly, working more muscle than by doing just a regular pushup. Some of the moves also require explosive power, another challenging move that will have you seeing gains in strength and mass in a quicker, and shorter, time period.
1) Lock Off: Get into push-up position and place one hand on either a medicine ball or a small box. Lower your body until your chest is just above the floor; push back up and reach up with your opposite hand and touch your chest.
2) Drop ‘n’ Pop: Get in position as if you’re about to perform a close-grip pushup, placing both hands on the side of a medicine ball. Drop, placing both hands on the floor to the sides of the medicine ball and lower your chest until it touches the ball. Explosively push yourself back up so that your hands leave the floor and are in the air briefly. Carefully place your hands back on the ball as you descend back toward the floor.
3) Close-grip Medicine Ball Pushup: Place both hands on the medicine ball, performing a regular pushup. To activate and work more muscle, squeeze your chest and arm muscles hard as you perform this move.
4) Crossover pushup using a Medicine Ball: Place one hand on a medicine ball with your other hand on the floor. Do a pushup with one hand on the ball; quickly switch hands and do a rep on the opposite side.
Turn these 4 moves into a workout: Want to create the ultimate chest and tricep workout? Combine all these moves together and do them back-to-back as quickly as you can. Eliminate rest periods and aim for at least five reps for each move. The idea is to create a circuit where you’re doing three, if not all four, of these moves for a total of 3 circuits over 10 minutes. Do this workout once a week, adding one rep to each move each week. After 6 weeks you should be doing 10 reps per move.
The Top Secret Wish List (UPDATED 8/12)
In the previous post, we brought up the subject of the To Do List. It’s that wish list of sexual conquests, experiences, and goals that most every guy seems to carry around in his mind. We also introduced the idea that many guys actually have two lists.
There’s that public list that they talk about, brag about, or possibly even compete with the friends about…how many girls they’ve scored with, sleeping with the hottest girl (or guy) in class, hot tubbing with a naked Miley Cyrus, or catching Taylor Lautner jacking off.
And then there’s that secret private list that we might wrestle with in the dark of night. Those secret desires and wishes that we’d love to experience…if only no one would ever know. Forbidden partners. Kinkier activities. Activities that would contradict our the sexuality that everybody thinks we are. And much much more.
So do you have a Top Secret Wish List? What’s on it? Hey, c’mon, it’s all anonymous here so this might be your only chance to spill. Who knows, maybe someone else has the same wish as you?
UPDATE 8/12/2011 — Here’s a look at some of the responses people have been giving on the polls so far…
STRAIGHT GUYS…Sex with a guy (9 responses), have sex at the gym, multiple penetration, give oral to a guy, make out with a guy, have a threesome (various combinations, 3), jack off with a guy, experiment with a guy (3), have sex with gf for the first time, get caught having sex, give a hand job to a guy.
BI GUYS…Have a threesome (various combinations, 4), compare sizes with brother in law, d everything possible with both sexes, sex with a specific guy friend (3), give oral to a guy, see Taylor Lautner jack off
GAY GUYS…Have sex in a public place, have a threesome, sex with a straight guy (4), multiple partners at once, watch Taylor Lautner jack off, sex with a neighbor, find a hot older attractive guy, have sex with best friend.
UNSURE GUYS…Have sex with another guy (4)
That’s the update. Keep your answers coming!
The To Do List
The libido of a typical guy is a fascinating thing. For whatever reason it seems to hold true for most guys that one thing is usually bouncing around our brains at any given moment. That thing? Yeah, you guessed it: SEX. We don’t just have a libido, it seems like it’s turned on high all the time. We’re not just horny, we’re horny allll the time. For the most part, this condition seems to remain in us no matter what age we are, but it is the most pronounced when we are in puberty and adolescence.
As we march through our adolescent years wrestling with this perpetual horniness, we carry with us hopes, desires, longings, and goals pertaining to our sexual experience. We yearn to experience certain things. We hope never to experience other things. We’re hot hot hot to see what one certain thing is all about and completely uninterested in another experience.
This list of “want to’s” or “to do’s” usually takes on two forms: The public one we will admit to our friends, or maybe even compete with them over, and the private one we keep to ourselves, the one we wrestle with in the middle of the night. It’s a list of secret desires and longings that we’re not quite sure others would understand or accept, but we can’t seem to get them off of our mind.
We worry a lot about these lists. Why are we not checking things off as quickly as our friends? Why do we burn with a passion for certain things? What do these things mean when it comes to our sexuality? Does anybody else feel the way I do?? It can be particularly unsettling if, for example, our public list is completely straight and our private list is possible less than completely straight. (Having straight desires on the outside and gay desires on the inside is actually a lot more common than you think. If you’d like to read more, click HERE to check out our post, “Straight Guys/Gay Thoughts”.)
Well let’s take a look at those lists…the public ones AND the private ones. Be honest. What’s on your list? Let’s see how everyone compares.
