“I’ll Show You Mine If…”
I’m going to go out on a limb here and say, guys like their own dicks. There’s something special and fascinating about our penises that we hold near and dear…and often. For many guys, that pride and interest often extends to a healthy curiosity about what other guy’s are packin’. This mutual penis fascination, curiosity, and yes, even competitiveness tends to lead to the good ol’ “I’ll show you mine, if you show me yours” routine. Comparing boners is an age old practice between guys. Not all guys of course. It depends on just how strong your sense of curiosity, bravado and exhibitionism is.
So what about you? Have you compared boners with a buddy or a brother? Have you broken out the ruler at a sleepover? Or are you just too shy or just not interested? For the sake of this survey we’re going to define what counts and what doesn’t qualify as a true boner comparison.
WHAT COUNTS? The comparison has to be on purpose. In person. In front of each other. You have to have consciously whipped it out and gotten a boner solely for the purpose of seeing who’s got what.
WHAT DOES NOT COUNT? Just telling each other your boner size without actually showing. Accidental sightings of someone else (like walking in on your brother in the bathroom with a boner). Seeing penises in a porno. Seeing another guy’s boner because you were having sex. None of those things qualify as truly comparing boners.
Okay, got it? Well take the polls and let’s see how common the “I’ll Show You Mine, If You Show Me Yours” really is.
is it ok to compare your bush to other guys. i mean some have lots and some have none. compare to see where you are. in my school ive seen 6 peoples bushes and 3 peoples penis. is it okay to compare penis size?
November 28, 2011 at 6:22 PM
Personally I don’t think there is anything “wrong” with comparing anything with another guy. In my mind it’s totally normal to be curious about how whatever you have looks compared to someone else. By comparing and checking out other guys we gain self esteem, guidance on grooming, peace of mind about how we look, etc., especially during those years when we’re growing and developing. I can’t answer the question of whether or not something is “okay”, that’s for you to decide, but I would def say it’s normal, natural, and healthy, and I’m sure pretty much everyone does it in some shape or form.
November 30, 2011 at 2:08 PM
Ha ha, I’ve totally done this, but I’ve never really been into ‘measuring’. Doesn’t that just leave one of you slightly put out? Despite what everyone says about size not mattering I don’t think it’s healthy for the friendship for you to both be walking around knowing who is smaller and my how much. I just want to see what it looks like and maybe jack off together, not turn it into a competition.
December 10, 2011 at 7:15 PM
when you go to the urinals have you never looked at the other guy to see if he has got a bigger cock
December 20, 2011 at 10:56 AM
I agree. But we live in a world of competition. It maybe bigger houses, cars, penises, breasts, etc. We are all curious about what the other person has. Penis size has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction and orgasm. Big penises are a visual turn-on for women as big breasts are a turn-on for us men. I am satisfied with the size of my penis. I enjoy sex so much and I am able to satisfy my wife when we have sex. We both have great orgasms. There is nothing more I want than when I wake up in the morninig with a hard-on and then I have sex with my wife. I would never want to live without sex. It is like not drinking a cup of coffee each day.
December 29, 2011 at 10:54 AM
when ever i go to my freinds house we look at each other dicks
January 7, 2012 at 12:32 AM
this is perfectly normal; i don’t know too many guys who don’t show each other their cocks and stroke and suck each other’s cocks; some will even fuck each other; they just don’t want anybody else to know about it; you’ll learn after high school if you were afraid of these things that everyone who picked on you and called you gay was doing gay stuff themselves and just didn’t want you finding out about it so they all acted straight to hide it; but nobody is straight; it’s a scientific fact that all humans are bisexual, just like animals; men love cock just as much as women do; many men haven’t evolved enough yet to realize it or are scared to admit it or are just plain uneducated and taught that it’s wrong although i assure you whoever is teaching them that sex with other guys is wrong is back at home/work/locker room, etc. having sex with guys every time they they get the chance
March 12, 2012 at 3:51 PM